Saturday, December 13, 2008

Arranged marriege Vs Love marriage

Arranged marriage:
1. Tailor made husband(tall, sweet, no body hair, dark, not a s/w guy, no glasses,caring , not mom's boy, shouldn't have a sis, shopaholic, filthy rich, good in b*% n wot not....!!)

2. Parents n "well wishers" do the sweating to find the right guy while the girl gets to sit back, relax and jus make demands.

3. Lotsa pics of guys to look at and drool upon. licensed drooling indeed!! aaaaahhhh bliss!!! (sigh!)

4. Lotsa things to discuss with girlfriends and giggle about ( moi: "babes the guy who came yest gosh!! wot a man!!! seriously a hot bod gal" friend: "giggles")

5. coming to the wedding. defly a lot more jewellery and a realllly extravagant wedding ceremony.

6. Parents happy happy.

7. The first night is truly the first night (atleast with each other! :P)

8. The honeymoon is bound to be an expensive affair. filled with licensed flirting with a man tailor made to suit my issshtyle and ofcourse with other unspeakable things ;)!!!

9. Parents pleased to boast about the perfect son in law that they chose for their girl.

10. in laws not good enough? jus call dad n wail a bit then.... super dad to the rescue!!! flying to the in laws' place skinning them all with words of iron.

11. Last but not least, infact the best, SOME amount of non stop eating (feasting) at all the relatives' homes, being treated like royalty. icing on the cake nobody criticizes a bloating body. attributing it to marital bliss!!! hahahahahahahahahahaha!!! Bliss indeed :)


Love Marriage :
1. Rule no.1 accept the guy as he is ( love handles, paunches, tantrums, quirky habits et al!!! uggghhh!!!)

2. the gal hunts......hunts.........n..... hunts to land up with the right guy!!! hard work indeed. phew!!

3. No license to drool at anyone but "The man".( heard the saying that goes" variety is the spice of life"?)

4. frens really get bugged of listening to lovers' conquests so one better keep her gob shut about the relationship n stop boring her frnes, especially the single ones!

5. wedding ceremony?? wot wedding ceremony? oh the one at that old government office in front of an old bloke and a few frens! or the slightly more cinematic one at that hill top temple???

6. Parents mostly sad smiley face. :(

7. First night??? :O wot first night??? awwwww u mean the twenty first night (cliche!!) yeah its that boring man!!!!

8. Most probably none. and if any it might be one to a local location to a place like elagiri or somethin! financed ofcourse by the self!

9. Parents in a dilemma as in wot to tell ppl about their "son in law!!!!"

10. in laws not ok?? well adjust for the sake of "ur love" for he cant talk against his mom or his dad!! no parents to the rescue now!!

11. No Feasts at any of the relatives' places baby!!! no feasts at all!!! :(


confusedly yours
sangz :) ;) :O




DISCLAIMER: I do not wish to hurt anybody's feelings, these are strictly my views erupting from experiences. They are only meant for casual reading and the induction of a few smiles :)

25 comments:

  1. It sure bought me a smile :) Nice to read this after lots of forwards on same topic..

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  2. Interesting post :) , funny too. It can be also called ideal and not so ideal marriage, depending on how one wishes to risk it. I agree to the first part, the arrange marriage one, you got it all right. But the criteria not having a sis might cut short your applications to minimum,so tough time for choosing ehhh ! And more importantly till when does the bliss last, no one has been able to give a proper answer...much researched topic. Hopefully...all is well, and happily ever after :)

    Now comes the love mrg, very difficult to talk about it. much debated.. varied experiences.. 21st night it is ;) ...and truly variety (at least not now) is not the spice of life...Life may be terribly difficult but good things do happen. God Save the man and the woman tooo...

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  3. Thank you very much for your greetings.
    I wish you too

    MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR

    Greetings from Sweden

    *Romy*

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  4. that was a good one! keep posting :)
    merry xmas! to u and all ur family members!

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  5. Okay that is funny is it too late to give hubby back and get my an arranged one? They sound yummy!! LoL

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  6. :D

    Arranged for me then! :D

    Definitely.

    Love hurts. :(

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  7. Range sangz! Unmai valikardhu sangz

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  8. Hello…….
    Very interesting blog..Congratulations..

    Wishing you "A Merry X'Mas and A Happy New Year''.

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  9. I just want to drop by and say Merry Christmas although it's late now to greet. And Advance happy new year. May God richly bless you. Nice reading your blog :)

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  10. Your "voice" is amazing as your topics.
    What a wonderful treat to spend time here!

    David

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  11. Hi... Thanks for coming by my blog... I added myself to your followers... Loved your arranged & love match ups...funny Have a great day...

    Donna

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  12. HI, You know you have a point there.. I am from another culture and I never looked at it like that.. you just made me see another view .. I like that...

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  13. HMMM? glad to find another "twisted" mind

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  14. hello stacy!! i saw ur blog verrry interesting!!:) i like wildlife conservation etc and i envy u for the work ur doing!!!

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  15. Hey!! Nice post..this is what I call life is about...
    Happy to be adding you as a friend. Keep writing more often plz.

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  16. so what u belive is arrange marriage is so sweet and love marriage is not.the only problem is what will happend if u wont like ur husbend/wife after marriage?i know what. u will suffer to the end of ur life...when u love someone before u got married u love that person more and more and more every day after marriage and u have happy life an sex even 22222200009 times is still exiting atleast u deffinitly enyoy it what u cant be so sure about after arrange marriage

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